Jeanette has been fostering with the council since 2018. She currently provides respite care to give other foster carers a break from everyday duties.
What is it like to be a foster carer?
"I became a foster carer to make a difference and enhance a child's life. I've got two grown up children and my divorce had a huge impact on us all. It was a traumatic experience, but we came through it stronger and I felt we had something special that we could offer someone. I also felt it was important to give back.
"I have my family and that foster child becomes part of my family. I treat them no differently than any other member.
"Sometimes, following conversations with the children in my care, I have to catch myself when I'm reminded that there are some children who have little to eat and haven't learnt basic life skills. The little one I am currently looking after has asked to learn to do the washing up, put his socks on independently, and we've been developing his homework so he's now doing well at school. I set boundaries and provide a loving, stable environment so I know I'm enhancing his lifestyle and experiences. And I know he won't forget that."
How will the new benefits package help foster carers?
"It's great that the council has listened to feedback from foster carers to deliver more support and training to enhance the lives of children in care. The cost of living has gone up so much, so the new remuneration package will be a good incentive for many people to sign up. I foster because my heart is in it and I want to make a difference, but the benefits package shows further recognition for the valuable job we do."
Why do you provide short-term stays?
"I used to foster for long periods of time, but now I like to fit fostering around my career. It's more flexible for me to offer short-term stays for children, as well as respite for other foster carers. There are lots of different options you can choose from as a foster carer, and there's so much support on offer.
"The fostering team is always looking for more carers to provide short-term support. I've looked after children of all ages from all walks of life, including a few unaccompanied asylum-seeking children."
Tell us about fostering for an agency
"I originally fostered for an independent fostering agency, but I moved to the council as I wanted to be better matched with local children. With an agency, I felt like there were always so many hoops to jump through but at the council the process is more joined-up and direct. Hillingdon's fostering team assess each child and then accurately match us together, knowing that I can meet that individual child's needs."
What would you say to someone considering fostering?
"I would say to do it! It's very rewarding and you can be part of a child's life and really make a difference. There are lots of different options so don't hesitate to find out more."
